Move On

“Why do people persist in a dissatisfying relationship, unwilling either to work toward solutions or end it and move on? It's because they know changing will lead to the unknown, and most people believe that the unknown will be much more painful than what they're already experiencing.” ~Anthony Robbins



“Forgive yourself for your faults and your mistakes and move on.”
~Les Brown



“You can't keep blaming yourself. Just blame yourself once, and move on.”
~Homer Simpson



I found these quotes, and thought of my friend of 9 years, Staci. She had a bad relationship, was able to get out. The judge told her that her ex, could not see the baby, 4 year old Lexi, because his girlfriend who makes and smokes meth, exposed Lexi to it. So they got back together, and he told her nothing but lies, said they would be together forever. He got her pregnant again, with twins this time. Then he kicked her out, now she has no place to go, and no income, because she has no job. She lost one of the babies, and now he wants her to have an abortion. She keeps blaming herself. I told her 'yes, it's your fault for believeing him, and going back to him, but let it go, and move on'. I even offered her to stay with us, and all she can think about is 'maybe, I can get my guy friend to give me money to get a place'... Really? What will you have to do for that money? It takes time once you have been knocked off your feet, let life run it's course. True friends stand beside you in your time of need. :)) Everyone who reads this leave a comment, write it to Staci, and let her know 'that this too shall pass' sayith the Lord...and that it's just a rough spell, We love you Staci, now Love yourself. :D